tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-82134888867440863902024-03-05T11:18:12.188-08:00View from the HoodView from the Hood is about a woman who grew up on the right side of the tracks. Now, this woman lives on the wrong side and loves it. Never a dull moment in the hood!Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.comBlogger36125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-56164199807178627142010-03-28T20:15:00.000-07:002010-03-28T22:08:28.428-07:00Don't think I have it in me to do again...Sometimes when you are a pastor, you get called on to do really, really tough things. There was a time, over ten years ago that a grandmother in our church got a court order that gave her custody of her two grand kids. Her daughter and the daughter's boyfriend were hooked on drugs and the grandmother took action.<br /><br />This was a tough decision for the grandmother. She felt she had no choice.<br /><br />So she asked Victor (and me) to help her take the kids. Police officers would be with us in case things got out of hand.<br /><br />Backing up a bit... When Victor was a young man and stopped being a full time rock 'n roller, he worked for a time as a 'bug-man'. He had a regular route and every few months would go to this grandmothers' house and treat it for bugs. At the time the daughter was a young girl and Victor talk to her a bit and made friends with both of them. The daughter always liked Victor.<br /><br />Now back to the story... 10 years later:<br /><br />The date and time were set when we were to go and get the kids. It would be a 'surprise' kind of thing.<br /><br />Victor and I drove over to the apartments to meet the grandmother and the police. On the way there, we started praying. I asked the Lord to <em>"Please</em> let the parents be asleep." I kept thinking of the story in Acts 16 when Paul and Silas were in prison and the guards fell asleep and the jail doors opened up etc.<br /><br />*Queue up the racing-heart sound*<br /><br />Grandmother (with the police men wearing bullet proof vests) goes to the door and knocks. The two young children answer the door. Grandmother says "Hi sweeties, open the door I'm here to pick you up." The kids were happy to see her. She takes them and the police go inside.<br /><br />"Mom! Don't take my kids!!" The daughter actually <em>was</em> asleep and woke up and figured out what was going on. She was now screaming and crying and kept saying over and over "Mom, don't take my kids! PLEASE!"<br /><br />The two kids screamed and cried and said that they wanted their mother.<br /><br />The daughter sees Victor and is stunned. The police hold back the boyfriend. One of the officers has searched the house and he comes out and says "There are no beds for the kids. No food in the kitchen and the place is a mess."<br /><br />Victor hugs the daughter and tells her that it's going to be 'OK' and that the kids needed a safe place to live until she get her life back together. She just weeps.<br /><br />As this whole thing winds down, we head back to our car. When we get in, I burst out in tears and have a good cry. I could not get the anguish of the mom and her kids out of my mind and cried the whole way home.<br /><br />I thank God that I haven't had to do that again.<br /><br />What brought this story to mind was that Victor said to me this week, while we were driving around, "What was the name of that grandmother that lived out in this area?" I told him her name. I hadn't thought of her in years. So right there, we prayed for her. I hope she, her daughter and precious grand kids are doing well. The kids would be in their late teens now.<br />God bless them.Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-25171144255389645172010-03-15T18:17:00.000-07:002010-03-15T21:24:41.784-07:00A Jonah Day<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMA-hlTVQGEeIrtiBcd2TQEufqNMLjiq-oAye07tKKaaSCPXzkRqZOA9Uu-NgZ4Wdp8f9R1f0F_gmi7veD3xWb5aSALwQi9Tr7HNHxRFHekwqw_l49cMUJ4bn-Rdssy5JhmLqlMki05R8/s1600-h/0315001202%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449073864925332466" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhMA-hlTVQGEeIrtiBcd2TQEufqNMLjiq-oAye07tKKaaSCPXzkRqZOA9Uu-NgZ4Wdp8f9R1f0F_gmi7veD3xWb5aSALwQi9Tr7HNHxRFHekwqw_l49cMUJ4bn-Rdssy5JhmLqlMki05R8/s400/0315001202%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Last Saturday started out as a Jonah Day. You know the kind of day where everything goes wrong.</div><br /><div>I had come home from running errands and saw our Bradley in the window and thought that he should come outside to go potty. I was with him in our front yard when a bicyclist came riding by and suddenly, Bradley took off after him! </div><div> </div><div>Then I realized why. </div><div> </div><div>The guy had a leash and his big bulldog was running along side him. Bradley came at him like a torpedo and startled the big dog. Yikes! The bulldog defended himself and Bradley was getting chomped on. Oh, the yelping! (screaming?)</div><br /><div>After the man got a better grip on his dog and was smacking him, the dog let go of Bradley. I won't forget the sight of Bradley <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">hanging</span> from the big dog's mouth. I thought "If he dies, it is my fault because I didn't watch him close enough."</div><br /><div>Bradley ran up to our front porch all muddy and shaken.</div><br /><div>I apologized to the guy. I should have had Bradley on a leash even though it was just out front.</div><br /><div></div><div>I let Bradley in the house and took him up to our bathroom and started the bathtub. Ugh! He had literally gotten the poop scared out of him and I just now noticed it. He shook out the mud, etc. all over the bathroom and I was NOT HAPPY.</div><br /><div></div><div>A little knocking on our screen door. I see the bulldog owner. He is hoping that Bradley is <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">ok</span>. I think he is. I didn't see any blood so far. The man's name is Spencer and he lives on the next block. He tells me his dog is still a puppy and is caught up on all of his shots. Nice guy.</div><br /><div></div><div>Victor came home soon, told me to "go shopping" and, thankfully, took over and cleaned Bradley up plus the bathroom :)</div><br /><div></div><div>I then got in the car to go to the Downtown Mall. An accident was on the side of the highway and a woman had her hands on her head like she was just shocked. I thought to myself how I still felt shaken and jittery. I kept seeing Bradley getting bitten and me not able to do anything about it.</div><br /><div></div><div>My exit was backed up and I thought it was because of the accident. Cars were entering in trying to get on the freeway, while others, like myself, were trying to exit. It was kind of a strange weaving in and out of cars. We were all going about 5mph.</div><br /><div></div><div><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">BAM</span>!</div><br /><div></div><div>I was hit from behind-Oh! I pulled over to the side and the other car did too. We got out and talked. They wanted to see if I was <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">ok</span>. I was and so was my car. Again, no harm done. Just startled.</div><br /><div></div><div>It is about this time that I start thinking about our "Adversary." I am not the sort that believes the Devil is everywhere, yet his job is to get us distracted and discouraged. I thought about that for a while. Thankfully though, the rest of the day was really good!</div><br /><div></div><div>Next day at church our pastor was speaking and talked about the 'whole armour of God' <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Eph</span> 6:10-20. Especially about the 'shield of faith'. </div><div> </div><div>He said "I'm talking about the large shields like the Romans used. After all, do you get tiny arrows coming at you?!"</div><br /><div></div><div>I like that.</div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-47240368145781294032010-03-06T23:02:00.000-08:002010-03-06T23:43:30.413-08:00Abuse and HealingVictor and I went to a neat couples' house for dinner tonight. We had a great time talking and catching up. Then our conversation turned to our past experience leaving the old church we all had belonged to.<br /><br />Victor and I helped to pastor a church for a long time. It was really the only church I had known since becoming a Christian at age 13--the only church our kids had known. It went bad, actually had been bad for quite a few years, but it was getting worse. When Victor confronted some things that really needed to be changed, the other leaders turned it around and blamed Victor. Blamed us. We had to go, that much was clear.<br /><br />Thus we were launched, broken-hearted out into the unknown....<br /><br />It was the BEST thing that could have happened to us!!<br /><br />Through all the tears and pain, and, even great sickness, I can say "Thank you Lord for bringing us through!"<br /><br />It is a classroom I <em>never </em>want to sit in again. I think I have learned my lesson.<br /><br />It is strange that we even talked about this subject with our friends. Earlier this week I came across a woman's blog where her sister had written about the cult they had grown up in. It was called 'The Children of God'. The leader promoted sex between the children and adults in the group. It was a truly traumatic experience and some of the kids have grown up to commit suicide (and one murder of an abuser)-horrible! One former member put together a documentary that was shown on HBO. I watched about 7 minutes of it and had to turn it off. It was absolutely disgusting.<br /><br />I commented on the woman's blog and told her that I was so sorry that she had suffered under that evil group. I told her that I had gone through a bad church experience myself (Not of the sexual kind. Bullying, misuse of authority and guys that shouldn't have even been in leadership) and that I hadn't given up on my faith in God.<br /><br />I told her that I hoped she wouldn't be offended in any way, but that she would be in my prayers. My heart goes out to her and to others who have been damaged by people and groups purporting to know God and to know His way. There are some bad leaders out there who are out for their own egos and worse. I totally get it when people lose their faith and feel that they could never trust a church or church-goer again.<br /><br />That was almost me.Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-85560460750723141322010-02-20T20:55:00.001-08:002010-03-15T22:31:48.858-07:00A Man Called Gregory<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7SXXk6OlKNbcFcQlgmtTOdfE5l1wNu52J-84OQVFUM1YClV6A_R2GqyrKzH4uIhFLE7W3O3EuBqycHVG3Liefnv7mOatbUBKph6K9m3j2F6NruDWC9btogQz4m8nEWclW2XaxSTmlLME/s1600-h/downsized_0222000940%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449030685569961442" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi7SXXk6OlKNbcFcQlgmtTOdfE5l1wNu52J-84OQVFUM1YClV6A_R2GqyrKzH4uIhFLE7W3O3EuBqycHVG3Liefnv7mOatbUBKph6K9m3j2F6NruDWC9btogQz4m8nEWclW2XaxSTmlLME/s400/downsized_0222000940%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Back in our first years here, there was a neighbor, Gregory, who lived in a duplex on the next block. When he first moved in he would play his music LOUD. He had friends over a lot and they'd sit on the porch and listen to music from the big-ghetto blaster he had. Yes, this was in the days of ghetto-blasters.<br /><br />When someone new moves in and right off the bat does something kind of disruptive, it puts you on guard. (It was probably only disruptive to me, others didn't pay any mind, I bet). Somehow, we became acquainted with Gregory and thought he was a nice guy.<br /><br />Ok, so he and his friends drank a bit too much at times, but they meant no harm. It was just their way of relaxing.<br /><br />Gregory was hard to understand, something in the way he spoke--his words were garbled. We had to listen real carefully to get the gist of what he was saying. As we got to know him, he told Victor "Man, we were scared of you at first."<br /><br />Victor said "Of me?! Why?"</div><div><br />"Because you were in a suit and we didn't know what you were doing around here."<br />Just goes to show you never can tell.<br /><br />Gregory, loved playing his loud music. One day I got the idea to get him some Gospel music. (If you can't beat 'em, join 'em) I had just read the book Fresh Wind, Fresh Fire by Pastor Jim Cymbala and I really loved his church's music. The Brooklyn Tabernacle had a unique Gospel-y sound. I figured that if I got Gregory one of their CD's it would also encourage him to know of God's great love for him.<br /><br />You do not know how much I got a kick out of hearing that CD shaking up our street!<br /><br />We invited Gregory to church and he came with us a few times. I wish he could have fit in better. Surely, the church could have tried harder...<br /><br />Victor found out a little about his past. He had spent time in prison. While he was inside, someone hit him on the head with a hammer a few times and that is why he couldn't speak well. It makes your heart break when you hear things like that.<br /><br />I titled this post 'A Man Called Gregory' as a tribute to a neat book I read called 'A Man Called Norman' by Mike Adkins. It is about Mike's neighbor, Norman. Norman was made fun of and mistreated by the townsfolk. He was a different kind of a guy and couldn't relate to people and vice-versa. The part that I think of was when Mike, in reaching out to Norman, brought a used, but still very nice, men's suit over to Norm. He usually wore the same denim overalls everyday, but Mike had invited Norm to church and thought he should wear a suit.<br /><br />Imagine Mike's surprise when he opened Norm's closet to put the suit in for him and saw all kinds of suits already there!<br /><br />Mike realized that all of them were used and that people, well meaning, had given Norm their cast-off's. Right then, Mike sensed that the Lord wanted him to take Norm out and buy him a <em>new</em> suit. He had to give Norm his <em>best</em>. He had to love him <em>for real.</em><br /><br />I need to remember that story more often.<br /><br />"Even though I speak in human and angelic language and have no love, I am as noisy brass or a clashing cymbal. And although I have the prophetic gift and see through every secret and through all that may be known, and have sufficient faith for the removal of mountains, but I have no love, I am nothing." I Cor 13:1-2</div><div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-80660007573224813282010-02-15T16:03:00.000-08:002010-02-15T21:51:58.083-08:00Crazy Mexican? I'll Show You a Crazy Mexican!This morning I was leaving to pick up my daughter at the airport. As I'm walking down the sidewalk, my neighbor, Jennifer (one of the Band of Mothers) stops me and asks if I heard about the crazy guy hanging around our street? "No, what crazy guy?"<br /><br />Turns out, last night in the alley, a guy was acting strange and hanging out back there. This morning he was back on our block looking at all of the children and talking to them.<br /><br />Now, we have over 50 kids on our street-I know, it sounds like I'm exagerating, but I assure you I am not. All of them seemed to be out today because of the great weather.<br /><br />So this Mexican guy has a rope and is acting like he is going to lasso someone and he tells a couple of the boys "I'm going to come back at midnight and get you." All of the kids start hiding behind cars and he starts yelling at them.<br /><br />Finally, the kids alert the adults and Jennifer calls the police. She is going out in her car to see if she can find him. I head back inside and tell Victor to keep an eye out and that the police are looking for a strange guy etc.<br /><br />Victor heads outside and a bunch of the fathers are watching over the kids now. He talks to Ahfros and they jump into a car together and start diving around looking for the dude.<br /><br />It isn't long before Victor and Ahfros see the guy and the police have him handcuffed and are going through his bag. He had a rope and binoculars!!<br /><br />Scary, very scary.<br />We are truly thankful nothing bad happened.<br /><br />Victor suggested to Ahfros that they start a reality show about a Muslim and a Christian guy that are bounty hunters...Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-36350418150018489062010-02-12T15:40:00.000-08:002010-03-15T22:42:19.893-07:00"They Trash"<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPwsFCgpku81vUq_6nfbQIm6TKbzPbOclDHXak4CTqiqG-y2Phqb03XmoJg0Uvewo5HaszYzAsgCQmMLqiEkPdwrZsadwXxIAagdo_fgyXF6wr9eBheFSsYTy7EK36lCrecU21QebgT7g/s1600-h/0212001622%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5437527089210746978" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgPwsFCgpku81vUq_6nfbQIm6TKbzPbOclDHXak4CTqiqG-y2Phqb03XmoJg0Uvewo5HaszYzAsgCQmMLqiEkPdwrZsadwXxIAagdo_fgyXF6wr9eBheFSsYTy7EK36lCrecU21QebgT7g/s400/0212001622%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div>Sometimes, in every neighborhood, you get folks that are really hard to understand. People that have come from such a different background than yourself that, try as you might, you don't 'get' them.</div><div></div><div>Money and Wanda are two such people. When we first met these two I thought that once they saw the 'light' and we called the police on them enough, they would change from their destructive ways and become upstanding citizens.</div><br /><div></div><div>You see, Wanda and Money were very 'street'. Money worked fixing bikes all day. Both were hooked on drugs and Wanda would prostitute herself. I would call the police on her so many times! Sometimes, I would open my door and say "Ma'am, are you waiting for someone?" She'd sort of move on, but always came back. Finally, I had to double my efforts because she started hooking with her young child in the stroller. The idea is horrible. I would get so mad at her! (I mean, what kind of man has sex with a hooker in his car, while her child is in the stroller right there? She had takers though. No matter how dirty she was...)</div><br /><div>I wasn't sure, but I thought that her child, a girl, was around our son's age at the time.</div><br /><div>Wanda and Money bounced around the neighborhood and ended up renting across the street from us on the corner. It was a small apartment. Just one room.</div><br /><div>It turns out that me and Victor bought the building while Money and Wanda were renters. It was a triplex. When Victor went into their apartment, he was disgusted. They lived in PILES of trash and clothing. Raw sewage was running from their toilet out their back door. Cockroaches were everywhere and their fridge had been turned off and had rotting food in it-Ugh.</div><br /><div>Victor really took Money to task. He told him that if he ever found out that they were living like this again, he was going to call CPS. Their little girl deserved better. He told Money that it was his responsibility to provide a good home for both his wife and daughter.</div><div></div><div>M & W had to get their stuff together and move because we were going to fix up the building. Money was very resistant to this fact. It was probably because no one would rent a room to them. It was tough to get them to vacate. We had a friend come over to change the locks. Money stopped by and was being menacing-threatening to kill him. Our friend said that he was shaking while using his screwdriver.</div><br /><div>We did have a chuckle over that because Money was all talk. </div><br /><div>He was very looked down upon by everyone. Nobody had any respect for him at all.</div><div>He was the lowest of the low. </div><br /><div></div><div>Once while talking to some of our more colorful neighbors we mentioned Money and Wanda and this neighbor said "Money and Wanda? They trash!"</div><br /><div></div><div>I know that I agreed with them. In my heart, I agreed. As a woman of faith, this is hard to admit because this is an idea that scripture is <em>dead set against</em>. No one is trash in God's book.</div><br /><div>Just because Money and Wanda never 'saw the light' doesn't mean that God had written them off. </div><br /><p>"Christ arrives right on time to make this happen. He didn't, and doesn't, wait for us to get ready. He presented himself for this sacrificial death when we were far too rebellious and weak to do anything to get ourselves ready. And even if we hadn't been so weak, we wouldn't have known what to do anyway. We can understand someone dying for a person worth dying for, and we can understand how someone good and noble could inspire us to selfless sacrifice. But God put His love on the line for us by offering His Son in sacrificial death while we were of no use whatever to Him." Romans 5:6-8</p><p>This is me also...the <em>lowest of the low.</em></p><div>A few years later when our kids were in elementary school, I saw Wanda ride up on her bike with her daughter on the handlebars. She was dropping her daughter off at school. I found out that their daughter was actually in the GATE program (gifted and talented education). </div><br /><div>I hope their daughter has grown up and used her intelligence to help her parents. I hope they have put their trust in the Savior too.</div><div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-64381406776299856102010-02-01T11:14:00.000-08:002010-03-15T18:05:30.241-07:00I Like to Think He was Cowering<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfg9wEz-xOWZYOrWmA6vugIFNF_swGHlFP9s2euaOKjmp4y3APEOG5BLpgKXePSmGBFp_lPIzIngRlOxf0KaCUAqJ4DN38mdFkYG2g6xvWesLxX-pYxkAw_DWaeMTTySMV1jZb5xuOMgE/s1600-h/downsized_0222000955%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449031446551308562" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhfg9wEz-xOWZYOrWmA6vugIFNF_swGHlFP9s2euaOKjmp4y3APEOG5BLpgKXePSmGBFp_lPIzIngRlOxf0KaCUAqJ4DN38mdFkYG2g6xvWesLxX-pYxkAw_DWaeMTTySMV1jZb5xuOMgE/s400/downsized_0222000955%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvcU8iHeUs4oMOOzoFh3IiIX2wt3nl6MyEuvVUF66FvGu3wDxL2CU1bXgAG8cR609OeIpp1FAIuPHYxMklsqZnEbvtTga8DEYcvd2O7QKPpA0xBfPrAtAP8w4ukI1Ag2osmfxrkqWtkyQ/s1600-h/downsized_0222000933%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5449031326985378546" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgvcU8iHeUs4oMOOzoFh3IiIX2wt3nl6MyEuvVUF66FvGu3wDxL2CU1bXgAG8cR609OeIpp1FAIuPHYxMklsqZnEbvtTga8DEYcvd2O7QKPpA0xBfPrAtAP8w4ukI1Ag2osmfxrkqWtkyQ/s400/downsized_0222000933%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div>I drove home one day after running some errands. I have my two really young children with me. I walk in the front door and realize that WE'VE BEEN ROBBED!<br /><br />Quickly I, without any panic so as not to scare my kids, backed out and go call the police. My sister, Julie, lives across the street and she has a great big Rottweiler. We take the dog through the house to make sure that the thief is gone-he is.<br /><br />He got my jewelry, including my wedding ring, and he got a credit card.<br />There was a pile of our belongings stacked up looking ready to go.<br /><br />As I walk through my house and out the back door, the woman from next door tells me that a man walked into our house. I ask if she called the police and she says "No." Oh well.<br /><br />Neighbors come out and we talk. I find out that there was a small fender-bender in front of our house earlier and we realize that when the accident happened, and everyone came out to help, the guy robbing us got scared and left out the back door.<br /><br />We canceled our card and the police took our report. Then we were left feeling really, really, um, strange.<br /><br />The next morning the mother of some wild kids down the street, comes over. She tells us not to say anything to anyone, but that the guy who robbed us has tried to use our credit card at a gas station. The guy's name is Jose and he lives in a house a block away. She knows this because her wild teenagers heard from Jose himself. We thank her and feel a little better just knowing a bit more info.<br /><br />As the week goes on, I start to get hit by a wave of fear-in my <em>own</em> house. Victor and I get concerned because our young kids are also scared. This makes us mad. Victor tells Sterling over and over again that if he ever sees Jose, he will push him to the ground, put his foot on his chest and tell him "Do you want to go to church or do you want to go to jail?" She starts to repeat the story with a <em>twist</em>. She says "Dad, you will tell Jose 'Do you want to go to church or do you want to DIE!'"<br /><br />Gotta love that.<br /><br />Well, after a week of feeling fearful, I get the overwhelming feeling that I should just go over to the Jose's house and ask him for our stuff back. I know where he lives and I want to look the guy in the face--eye to eye. I call Victor at work and tell him to pray for me that I am going to pay Jose a visit. Victor tries to discourage me, but in the end he can't stop me. I won't be dissuaded. He prays for me and off I go. Seriously.<br /><br />It is the middle of a sunny day. I walk down to the guys house. I stand there for a minute, sizing it up. Here goes nothing: bang, Bang, BANG! "Jose! Are you here? Jose?". Pause. "JOSE?!!" Bang, bang, BANG!<br /><br />Quiet. No one comes to the door. I don't hear any movement. I wonder if anyone is home. After standing there on his doorstep for a moment, I turn to go home.<br /><br />On my walk back home, the weight of fear is gone-thank God.<br /><br />Later on the sense of wanting to see Jose and talk to him, lifts. He is a coward. I don't need to fear him. I don't need to confront him either. I like to imagine that he was cowering in <em>his</em> home while I was knocking at his door...<br /><br />Man! I hate to be afraid.<br /><br />I <em>really</em> hate to have my kids fearful.<br /><br />"You are my hiding place; You shall preserve me from trouble;<br />You shall surround me with songs of deliverance." Ps 32:7<br /><br />Amen</div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com5tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-39995750502975046742010-01-25T19:37:00.000-08:002010-02-12T17:30:44.972-08:002nd Ave AdventuresEver since I first started this blog, I've been wanting to write about some my past experiences while living in Oak Park. It has been hard to think which story to tell first, but I'm going to go with the story of Ron and Anita.<br /><br />Ron and Anita were some neighbors that lived right across the street from us. This was when we lived on 2nd Ave a few blocks from where we live now. The house they and their kids lived in was a chopped-up remodel mess. It was a rental and it always seemed to be rented out to bad people. One time a woman and her kids rented it and, after a few days, I never saw them again. It had been taken over by drug dealers and all kinds of crazy.<br /><br />Thankfully, Ron and Anita were good people. They had 5 children who were 12 and under. I think they had a blended family and the children that Ron was responsible for were named Ronnie, Ronnell, and Ronita. Quite George Foreman-esque.<br /><br />This family had come from South Sacramento and were hoping for a better situation on our street. Ron had some pretty wild friends. It was clear that they had been through tough times and had experienced a tough life. Many times on the weekends his friends would come over and they'd party. We'd always say "Hi" and be neighborly. I remember when we stopped by and it was a warm summer day. Victor said to Ron and his friends "Are you having a good time hanging-out today?" Ron right away said "Vic, 'hanging-out' means that you have nothing to do and you are looking for trouble. We are <em>'socializing'</em>."<br /><br />A night came when Ron and Anita's big front window was shot-out by someone driving by! No one was hurt, thankfully, but it was scary. One of Ron's friends came over the next day. I wish I could remember his name because it was a tough-guy name for sure. He had, somewhere in his past, been hurt in the throat and his voice was very gravelly and deep. Anyways, this friend was into some dangerous stuff. He asked Ron if he wanted anything-anything at all. "Do you want a machine-gun?" (Ron was telling us this later and we had such a heart-stopping moment until...) Ron said "No! I DO NOT want a <em>machine-gun</em>. I have <em>kids in my house</em>!" (Whew)<br /><br />Tough Guy liked Victor and once said to him "If you ever need an army, for any reason at all, I got one for you." Victor answered him "Thanks, my friend, you know I have an army-a heavenly one." TG said "I know that, but if you <em>ever</em> need one on earth, you call me."<br /><br />I smile as I remember that...<br /><br />I like how the Apostle Paul said that he tried to be 'all things to all men'.<br />He was able to take people as they came and share the love of God with them.<br />This is what the world is hungry for.Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-32898853289494134362010-01-20T10:02:00.000-08:002010-01-20T10:11:02.846-08:00Jewelry Giveaway by Rosy RevolverOne of my dreams is to someday create beautiful jewelry. I'm talking soldering, melting, oxidizing, hammering and setting. I've never tried my hand at this-it may turn out that I would be absolutely <em>terrible</em> at it.<br /><br />I happen to 'follow' a couple of jewelry makers' blogs. Rosy Revolver is one of them. Right now, she has a jewelry giveaway-a beautiful turquoise and sterling silver necklace. Check her out below:<br /><br /><a href="http://rosyrevolver.blogspot.com/">http://rosyrevolver.blogspot.com/</a>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-45019783519443680492010-01-18T12:43:00.000-08:002010-01-18T13:24:25.324-08:00I Thought All Hell Was 'Bout To Break Loose!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjs7WiN14x88suTB-bv1R-JI5XVwRAJ-q3iLYaUAAvYXLP-To4hZmtvT8GTJlSEacimskfeJWCxLuAfAQl-9_ITmSUmfg6I3m12_9DGFVq-yi86xn0i4yd5seFGWwKwxqBuBqUKKqvUUWg/s1600-h/0113001952%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428183909906012546" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjs7WiN14x88suTB-bv1R-JI5XVwRAJ-q3iLYaUAAvYXLP-To4hZmtvT8GTJlSEacimskfeJWCxLuAfAQl-9_ITmSUmfg6I3m12_9DGFVq-yi86xn0i4yd5seFGWwKwxqBuBqUKKqvUUWg/s400/0113001952%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvmoLEDerb1FzU3Nzr4aDWho0_MTq_l3v0F5ynVFfjeykqF0iS_1Zqj4LJOssVF60iwxLDQZ5Ny9y85kPFWmT3kgg38QQcy4io317pxko6PhnX8wlxf2B1UYpv5_oM2YLyaE8zvOrcsv4/s1600-h/0113002057%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428183906202113570" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjvmoLEDerb1FzU3Nzr4aDWho0_MTq_l3v0F5ynVFfjeykqF0iS_1Zqj4LJOssVF60iwxLDQZ5Ny9y85kPFWmT3kgg38QQcy4io317pxko6PhnX8wlxf2B1UYpv5_oM2YLyaE8zvOrcsv4/s400/0113002057%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDlMMLBWURRHN_SWyWA10mSvwAzP49QRhKDps5qmZcOqEyayzSt0rSdFhzHSm6POVzkK0YM2AnBiWYdjkTWMvGe0tPKfQZth6Gl_OijZLms7jj1KxwzQD26xFIgv70lJB97x_E9HjJpcA/s1600-h/downsized_0113001938%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5428183722946974098" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjDlMMLBWURRHN_SWyWA10mSvwAzP49QRhKDps5qmZcOqEyayzSt0rSdFhzHSm6POVzkK0YM2AnBiWYdjkTWMvGe0tPKfQZth6Gl_OijZLms7jj1KxwzQD26xFIgv70lJB97x_E9HjJpcA/s400/downsized_0113001938%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a><br />Last Thursday night at the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">Arco</span> Arena I took my kids to see <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">Madea's</span> Big Happy Family. It is a play by Tyler Perry and in it he plays a woman named <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Madea</span>-kind of a take on 'my dear'.</div><div> </div><div><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-error">Madea</span>, an older woman, has strict standards of respecting yourself and your elders. When she misunderstands what a character says and thinks that there was some disrespect toward her, she has to ask again what that character has said. When she finally understands she will say something like "Oh, I thought you were being disrespectful to me and all hell was 'bout to break loose!"</div><br /><div></div><div>I like <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Madea</span> for many reasons. She is edgy. She packs 'heat' in her handbag. She isn't a real faithful church-going woman, yet she will bust out with wisdom. It is so funny when she tries to quote scripture-it is always a mix of parables and OT stories. She does get her point across though.</div><br /><div></div><div>All of the people that are in Tyler Perry's productions can sing like you've never heard! Each person at some point in the play sings a solo and it blows you away. Such talent.</div><br /><div></div><div>Oh, and do NOT be late to his play. He is known for breaking character and asking you why you were late! Sure enough, it happened Thursday night. (We were in the second row by the way) </div><br /><div></div><div><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_5" class="blsp-spelling-error">Madea</span> stops.<br /></div><div>"Here you are, you've paid all of this money to sit up front and now you are stepping over folks!"</div><br /><div></div><div>"Why are you late?"<br /></div><div>"Where did you come from?"</div><br /><div></div><div>"Quit taking pictures-you know it isn't allowed-see that man over there, security? He's gonna snatch you!"</div><br /><div></div><div>This was my 3rd Tyler Perry play that I've seen live. I think he is a good man who cares about young people, his own community and encouraging people in their faith. This particular production was in honor of his mother who just recently passed away. It was really a touching story emphasising how important a mothers faithful prayers for her children are-he made me cry!</div><br /><div>Thanks for the early Valentine, Mr Perry!</div><br /><div></div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-71804669015897268722010-01-09T14:10:00.000-08:002010-01-09T14:30:42.218-08:00New Neighbors and JW'sThis week we've had two houses on our block looked at by potential buyers or renters. This is always something to make note of for The Band of Mothers. We are concerned that the homes get filled with GOOD neighbors. One of the houses being looked at is the house that just got cleaned up by us. I really hope that our reputation has preceeded us-that we will be very nosy. We are just not going to let harm come to our kids.<br /><br />In other news, I took Victor to the airport before dawn. He is heading to the North East and left with a big cold-bummer. He speaks tomorrow morning at a church. They want to learn about CUFI. I hope he feels better in the morning. He will be going to Connecticut, Pennsylvania, DC and New York.<br /><br />Some Jehovahs Witnesses came to the door today-Oy. I am not good at talking to them. The man had a small boy with him and he was the cutest! Before the father got too far into his talk, I asked if we could just say "Jesus is Lord!" together so that I would know that the Spirit of God was living inside of the man. I started saying, enthusiastically "Jesus is Lord!" and the little boy chimed right in. I thought that was pretty great especially since I wasn't talking to the little guy.<br /><br />Overall I don't think I did very well with the man. When he left, his wife had come up and she was mad and I just had a funky feeling. I prayed for them and for me.<br /><br />Today is day 6 of the Daniel fast. I'm doing good on it, but today I made a salad for a get-together and I don't like it. I am contemplating whether to take it to the gathering or not...<br />New recipes are being tried a lot at our house. Most have been really great and I will add them to our family's regular menu.<br /><br />Hoping for good things coming down the line.Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-73690680022265041632010-01-06T13:34:00.000-08:002010-01-06T14:13:38.335-08:00New Year, New Dreams<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYbjBWhdYCE_A3chOuDeSH3BeLMeYFx91AyHLPDvdbbeMMYO9vI3uQZy6m8l7o2l5VqzfH7JSe0rTklVgtvMav4WxUUJKWAkO2-9XgohXIrk7Div6iGAphZFq5LQ-bxe_ODACY0XXTHYM/s1600-h/1231092103.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5423752165109054722" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhYbjBWhdYCE_A3chOuDeSH3BeLMeYFx91AyHLPDvdbbeMMYO9vI3uQZy6m8l7o2l5VqzfH7JSe0rTklVgtvMav4WxUUJKWAkO2-9XgohXIrk7Div6iGAphZFq5LQ-bxe_ODACY0XXTHYM/s400/1231092103.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br />I had a strange Autumn this year. Several things that I was going to begin: School, helping a relative, and a bible study- didn't happen. Circumstances changed and I couldn't do any of those projects.<br /><br /><div>I honestly felt thwarted.</div><br /><div></div><div>Praying about this has helped a bit, yet, I want to do <em>something</em> creative.</div><br /><div>Our whole church is beginning this new year with a Daniel's fast and prayer. I am praying that the Lord will touch my life and direct my path. This fast will be 21 days long-like Daniel did.</div><br /><div>I am helping out a bit more at church and that has been a blessing. It feels great to get <em>back in the game</em>. After our really bad experience a few years ago, I haven't been stretching my 'servant wings' on a real regular basis in a church.</div><br /><div>Ok, God. I am waiting on You. I know that You are a mighty God and You stand alone-none compares You and I certainly can't imagine what You have in store. Help me to hear Your voice. Help me to dream. Amen</div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-13080003727853957472009-12-28T11:31:00.000-08:002009-12-28T12:35:00.826-08:00...And a Merry Christmas Was Had by All<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlw0JTPCq0ZwcINY9eCMODKy0QBA5YjV5rd-o9zR0o83glc86NOb-14APyMeQ-4hPXArBHX34MKNOHki0h5q8rPJQkwZRKxappUktt2evDlJSX5qtbiOJ_hdzoybmb9JH9ujc0vxtnvps/s1600-h/Nativity.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5420384877863808018" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjlw0JTPCq0ZwcINY9eCMODKy0QBA5YjV5rd-o9zR0o83glc86NOb-14APyMeQ-4hPXArBHX34MKNOHki0h5q8rPJQkwZRKxappUktt2evDlJSX5qtbiOJ_hdzoybmb9JH9ujc0vxtnvps/s400/Nativity.jpg" /></a><br /><div>Well we had a whirl-wind of Good Tidings and such around our house.</div><br /><div>First off, we had a great Christmas party with the Center of Praise choir coming over. We ate some delicious food and read the Christmas story. Dr Ronn Elmore was the reader and Victor played his guitar and at certain parts of the story, we would sing a carol together. It was so nice to slow down and get focused on the true meaning of this holiday. I wish all of you could have been there...</div><br /><div>Christmas Eve we had a 'Present Extravaganza'. Every year, somehow, the Lord has given us a way to bring presents to all of the Pakistani kids in our neighborhood. Being that they are Muslim and don't celebrate Christmas, they really look forward to it. This year our dear friends the Dittmore's sent us fuzzy blankets, gloves, shoes, toys and I don't know what all--God bless them! I wish I had a picture to post with this story, but I was in the house cooking up a storm and I was dead-dog tired!</div><br /><div></div><div>Later that evening, we heard some skidding tires right outside our house. I went out to look and our neighbor yelled "Call the police, someone just stole our car!" Oh boy! Our neighbors had just pulled into their driveway and got out to open the garage door and move a bike out of the way. The engine was running and quick as anything, a guy jumped in and drove off! It still hasn't been recovered. Bold. Very bold.</div><br /><div>Christmas morning was spent at my step-son Asher's house. He and his wife, Janice had her side of the family over also. This was especially fun because there were lots of young kids over and they were bouncing all around and very excited. </div><br /><div>We have known Janice's family for a long time. A funny story: When Victor was in his 'rock 'n roll' days, his band, Waterfall, moved into Bob and Rachel's neighborhood. (Bob and Rachel are Janice's parents) They reached out to the band and shared the love of God with them. None of the band came to Christ during their stay in that neighborhood, but it wasn't from a lack of trying. Victor remembers seeing Bob across the street and Bob would yell out "Praise the Lord, Victor!" and Victor would shout back "Smoke pot, Bob!" Great memories...</div><br /><div>It was while at Asher's, I learned something that I'm still thinking about. There was different music playing and since Janice got her parents tickets to see the musical 'Wicked', the song 'Defying Gravity' was on. The music went on to play a random song called 'Hate on Me'. My son, Simon said "This is our family's theme song." and Sterling chimed in "Yes, it <em>is</em>!" I said "What do you mean by that?" and they proceeded to tell me that people hate our family. "What? Why?" They told me it is because sometimes, when we help people, "...it just makes them hate us."</div><br /><div>Wow...I think it is exagerated, but they have seen some bad behavior at times.</div><br /><div>Oh, I don't want to end on a bad note. And I won't because we still have to serve people and let the Lord worry about the outcome. Our family has helped plenty of people and they were very grateful and love us for it. </div><br /><div>Part of the song says "I gotta do me." As in, 'I have to do what I know is right and I won't quit.'</div><div>Jesus, certainly, was the BEST at this!</div><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-24017094804417925782009-12-19T15:31:00.001-08:002009-12-19T15:39:04.006-08:00Wild Branches in Las Vegas<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFDw9WZT4p6r_83eIKqMY0Ru8np3U9zD6w4NB-V3IoEFuLU1sfO0u60tmaIRL1XP5PkTXtHAm0Oz3t8uVtZ01yYNZ8-0Ct78PaNpC4e2MbmyNPQ5f-MlA9iFtcrhtGHCRIaiZ3w0I_Vjw/s1600-h/Me+in+Vegas.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 130px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 86px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5417094113904146114" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiFDw9WZT4p6r_83eIKqMY0Ru8np3U9zD6w4NB-V3IoEFuLU1sfO0u60tmaIRL1XP5PkTXtHAm0Oz3t8uVtZ01yYNZ8-0Ct78PaNpC4e2MbmyNPQ5f-MlA9iFtcrhtGHCRIaiZ3w0I_Vjw/s400/Me+in+Vegas.jpg" /></a> I just liked this photo of me singing at a rehersal for the Night to Honor Israel in Las Vegas. It was a special evening. We sang with a local church choir-very special people and so excited to support Israel. We also got to sing with our friend Avi who is now the cantor at Beth Shalom in Vegas. It is always fun with him especially when he busts out with 'Key-lay-o-lahm-chaz-doh!' 'His love endures forever!'<br /><div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-36982183284193839572009-12-17T17:19:00.000-08:002009-12-17T20:58:00.884-08:00Holiday Program<img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 300px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5416380482812303394" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjP03jneJkx_HKjkh797A7jX5Bf_zvr008px4KrW6hKRjQHITtqfrfCIW9yP0zrGBtWOOzW6_rYRwcqZAtpd2NsDyap9ukrmmjZliJknxSll2FZpel78EuWwcFivTEog5N7FU_D9ykjMNM/s400/cp1_1216091854%5B1%5D.jpg" />Last night was Samuel's Holiday Program. He is in 3rd grade.<br /><br />While I was waiting for the BIG SHOW, I over-heard this conversation:<br /><br />Woman to mother: "How intoxicated are you?"<br /><br />Mom:"What?"<br /><br />Daughter: "Just how intoxicated are you? I can smell it!<br /><br />Right then, yes it hit me.<br /><br />I also brought Ella to the show. She is Sam's little sister who is in kindergarten. I had to break some tough news to grandpa Victor. During the program, the crowd was clapping to some of the music and, sadly, it was then that I realized the beautiful girl, um, is rhythmically challenged. This isn't a fatal flaw though. In case you are wondering.<br /><br />While I'm writing of Christmas and holidays, I must write that I have been trying to put the 'fun' back into dysfunctional. This year, the pot has been stirred (as far as family relations go) and it really doesn't feel that good. It is making me pray a lot and hope for the future. I actually did something I never do: shop with my ipod in my ears! I felt like I just needed to listen to some praise music and refocus on the Lord. I played the song by Bishop Larry Trotter 'When You Praise' a bunch.<br /><br />Part of the words are 'When you praise Him, things begin to happen. When you praise Him circumstances change. When you praise Him, blessings are released!'Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-16838320784299247352009-12-12T09:53:00.000-08:002009-12-12T10:24:18.543-08:00Wellspring<div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKx7wOyIFhdAVSo0MCE4Ss7ZNwZn2K53ieVqe-sp4XcvPbvhkPra_6ZKfwLTeDfqlJ-1UdqzyzJKfPAPnqnkTZnodK3kH9_cPRmw3YikjlO1sKAyEsmcE393re5KAqyPpi_MObz9AtGb0/s1600-h/1211091331a%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414412307988507762" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjKx7wOyIFhdAVSo0MCE4Ss7ZNwZn2K53ieVqe-sp4XcvPbvhkPra_6ZKfwLTeDfqlJ-1UdqzyzJKfPAPnqnkTZnodK3kH9_cPRmw3YikjlO1sKAyEsmcE393re5KAqyPpi_MObz9AtGb0/s400/1211091331a%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a>Yesterday, I helped our church hand out boxes of food, toiletries and Avon to women in my neighborhood of Oak Park. The charity that Center of Praise worked with is called Wellspring. Wellspring feeds women and children every morning and gives them a nice place to relax.<br /><br />They do a great work. It was nice to help the families that came through. The children were precious and had that 'this is a special day' look in their eyes.<br /><br />After each woman received her boxes to take <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqDb3dQUYoeabV95F136qanwFA9aTiLVn1rJVce9eu7ceAh3RG9ojeUCgS5zpgUKZXoUHyqxx0k0ofJbrzLyug-4UNZHyvkPhhyvcvMTw58x1LNGCkxK4TYG-wn6rac3TOMz94X26GzWQ/s1600-h/1211091331%5B2%5D.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 320px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 240px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414416578175573186" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgqDb3dQUYoeabV95F136qanwFA9aTiLVn1rJVce9eu7ceAh3RG9ojeUCgS5zpgUKZXoUHyqxx0k0ofJbrzLyug-4UNZHyvkPhhyvcvMTw58x1LNGCkxK4TYG-wn6rac3TOMz94X26GzWQ/s400/1211091331%5B2%5D.jpg" /></a>home, then we would ask if we could pray for them and we invited them to come Sunday to church.<br /><br />I have to add that most of the women that came through were truly in need. You could see in their eyes the hard life they lead. These women have it really tough out there. My heart went out to the moms who had lots of kids. It made me think of how I grew up with just my mom raising us. It was a struggle. Very hard.<br /><br />SOME on the other hand, pulled up to collect their boxes in shiny new SUV's. What is that about?!<br /><br />...talk about ghetto!<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEih_w82uEWNT5_CYCmkvw9HYQJsLl1qcGrH1XZrY-TO6BMUKQMUrizp1ElSSqKJ8acZB40L2o389J6_Nv4DjTfcjlbrHYaYfHCjdCFSdfz6bqnmh8NqFeMsWxZ3_Z-stu5YEQbzJHH_UIg/s1600-h/1211091354%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 0px 10px 10px; WIDTH: 319px; FLOAT: right; HEIGHT: 198px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5414416579898223410" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEih_w82uEWNT5_CYCmkvw9HYQJsLl1qcGrH1XZrY-TO6BMUKQMUrizp1ElSSqKJ8acZB40L2o389J6_Nv4DjTfcjlbrHYaYfHCjdCFSdfz6bqnmh8NqFeMsWxZ3_Z-stu5YEQbzJHH_UIg/s400/1211091354%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-46274994090688645062009-11-24T13:56:00.000-08:002009-11-24T15:25:04.124-08:00So, you want to stir the pot?I've been a part of a great, local bible study. It has a national office in the mid-west and the bible study serves the US and a few other countries. This study has been so enjoyable because women from all different kinds of denominations participate and there are different levels of biblical knowledge--of course I always LOVE the new believers, they are so refreshing.<br /><br />It seems that the local leadership team ran into some lying from another bible study leader in our area. This leader was 'cold busted' through an email and from anothers word. It is too long of a story, but the woman who supervises this area was called in from the nat'l office and decided against the process of Matt 18. Our local leadership team, was aghast and dismayed. The final and last word came in September that the team would need to "submit to the authority" of the national office <u>without question</u>. There would be no further discussion <strong>period</strong>. No mention of Matthew 18.<br /><br />Of course, being the godly women that they are, they said that if they cannot live by the Word of God and use it to resolve conflicts, there would be no agreement to these conditions.<br /><br />That was the end of the local chapter of this bible study.<br /><br />The deeper issues seem to be petty jealousy, gossip and arrogance. My husband and I have been through this <em>ourselves </em>before and it was extremely painful. To see these bible study leaders so hurt-I mean, being a part of the bible study for 10, 20,even 30 years-is so sad. (Some women did write letters to the national leadership to no avail.)<br /><br />Well, we all figured that 'these things happen, lets see what God has next for each of us'. As sad as it has been, 300+ women moved on.<br /><br />Fast forward to yesterday. I get a letter from the national office. It is written by the bible study's Board of Trustee's chairman. (they were asked to get involved at one point and refused). The letter was FULL of misinformation and purposeful deception. Ugh.<br /><br />One of the bible study leaders here sent out a letter to our area. It was addressed to this Board of Trustee chairman and explained that Matthew 18 was NOT followed and that he has only heard one side of the story and has NEVER even ask the leadership team here to find out their side.<br /><br />I had to write the guy myself. (the names are changed to protect the guilty) Here 'tis:<br /><br /><p>Dear Mr Smith,</p><p>I see that your letter was meant to stir the pot again. That is okay because now I have to write!</p><p>Under your weak leadership and lack of living out-and gaining guidance from- the Word of God, this Bible Study chapter has closed. You have allowed Susy to become the untouchable 'sacred cow'. God is not a respecter of persons. This means that when we do wrong, we ALL must make things right again. She and women she supervises have become lying bullies. This, brother, ought not to be. The neat thing about this though is that she can humble herself and follow through with Matthew 18.</p><p>I am not sure why following Matthew 18 has become such a sticking point, but I will enlist your help and ask you to make sure that Susy and the women she oversees take care of business. Until this is done I will let my friends know that Bible Study has lost its way.</p><p>Also, it would be great if you and your staff wouldn't treat people that go to Bible Study with such condescension. Some of the things that have been done and said, well, it seems that you must think we are novices. It certainly hasn't endeared you to many folks.</p><p>It is a shame the way our quality, servant team members have been treated. The sisters here are wonderful and godly women. They are truly out to serve in excellence and are above reproach in their character. It has been heartbreaking to see the pain your staff members have caused. I truly hope you and your ungodly leaders repent. You have all sinned against the whole Sacramento Bible Study chapter.</p><p>Until you follow through with the Matthew 18 process, I ask you to remove my name from your mailing list. I would find it too unbearable to read any other mail from you, especially when it ignores such a glaring problem and has swept this kind of ugliness under the rug.</p><p>Sincerely,</p><p>Marita</p><p>PS I am not so naive as to believe that this letter would elicit any kind of change, yet I had to be one more reminder that you have gone wrong...</p><p>Well, as you can see I was fired up while writing this.</p><p>Proverb of the day-Don't make the sistahs mad!<br /><br /></p>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-3122126644505253712009-11-23T08:36:00.000-08:002009-11-24T00:01:56.760-08:00I Know About Faith in Jesus-Still Learning About the Faith of Jesus<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhho9Q7B_HBKGpDJnU7WU7_V3tZ-II44xUc4GncJuGxY4VPJdFKx3qo8mfZFAXqPasO-sryJRtf-Ya7KYq7EgSn77hJlKgOJvmCnY67WjhHp7slzIqask8-tmCZxZDRCADHGHlcthEWSfM/s1600/Beth+Sholom+in+Las+Vegas.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 400px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5407348160253150450" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhho9Q7B_HBKGpDJnU7WU7_V3tZ-II44xUc4GncJuGxY4VPJdFKx3qo8mfZFAXqPasO-sryJRtf-Ya7KYq7EgSn77hJlKgOJvmCnY67WjhHp7slzIqask8-tmCZxZDRCADHGHlcthEWSfM/s400/Beth+Sholom+in+Las+Vegas.jpg" /></a> Victor and I spent a great weekend with friends in Las Vegas. Our friends Avi and Kam wanted Victor to come and speak at their synagogue and sell some of his books. Avi used to be the cantor at Mosaic Law here in Sacramento. Now he is serving in Las Vegas. He is mentioned in Victor's book.<br /><br /><div>I can't tell you how priveledged it is to have these great friends. They welcome us with open arms into their world. Being a Christian my whole adult life, I never knew much about Judiasm. After visiting a few synagogues in different cities, I think I'm getting a better understanding of it-and I have a deep appreciation of it.</div><br /><div>I always get a bit anxious before we visit a Jewish community. I know that most folks in each congregation will not be open to hearing from a Christian pastor. I'm almost certain that there have been meetings and debates behind the scenes. Our Christian history has so hurt our 'elder brothers' in the faith that we have to walk very tenderly. Thankfully by the end of Victor sharing CUFI's message, many will be accepting and relieved.</div><br /><div>When I go to a Shabbat service, I almost feel like I'm time-traveling. As the Psalms and prayers are sung by everyone, and harmonies are strikng a wonderful chord, I am almost transported into ancient history. I love it! It usually gives me a 'Whoa!' moment.</div><br /><div>This weekend it at Beth Sholom, a young man was being Bar Mitzvah'd. He was up on the Beema and you could see the pride in his parents eyes. When he went to the ark and took out the scrolls to walk the aisles, you could feel the love coming at this young man. I always like how, as the scrolls are carried in the aisle, everyone turns to follow it. No one is supposed to have their back to the Word of God.</div><br /><div></div><div>After he recited what he learned and had given his speech, everyone threw candy at him and then the little children ran up to gather it. Rabbi Felipe gave an encouraging message and charge to the young man. It was a message about helping to make the world a better place. We certainly could use more of that.</div><br /><div>Victor sold some books and we made some new friends. Building bridges is a good thing :D</div><br /><div>Thanks to Avi, Kam, your children too. We will see you next week at the Night to Honor Israel. Your hospitality is so appreciated and we love you guys!!</div><br /><br /><br /><div></div><br /><br /><br /><div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-4982145150225284422009-11-15T16:46:00.000-08:002009-11-16T15:32:05.535-08:00How to describe...?<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWQLE-m1uoXgGxP50vF0S6Kb1eX3uQD1n84yaapaMGoyZPwoRmIxHamFeS7OeUztFgwqi4outMd7HWCL3DXkLVD16JAOhU9tNILjZFpukcp8MS8S7IngbrdzTSZzKeVb7_L9gRUFEujhI/s1600/downsized_1013092041%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 177px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5404740108926480930" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhWQLE-m1uoXgGxP50vF0S6Kb1eX3uQD1n84yaapaMGoyZPwoRmIxHamFeS7OeUztFgwqi4outMd7HWCL3DXkLVD16JAOhU9tNILjZFpukcp8MS8S7IngbrdzTSZzKeVb7_L9gRUFEujhI/s400/downsized_1013092041%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a> Woke up early-5:15am-to get ready for church. It was 3rd Sunday and that means that the whole choir is on to sing. We arrive at Center of Praise to warm-up and go through our set. It is 7am. Warm up time goes great and I am at the mike with Cynthia and Bette'. I confess I was a little bit distracted because I HATED what I was wearing (I am throwing away that dumb skirt!)<br /><br />After we are warmed up we head downstairs to 'circle-up' and pray. We start first service at 8am. Then we have a 9:30 and 11:15am service. The choir starts with a hymn. Today's was 'Higher Ground'. Then we sang "When You Praise", "To Worship You I Live" and during the offering "Souled Out". I have to clarify something. We are part of the choir, but it isn't a choir that people just sit and listen to. It is more like the choir leads the congregation in song and worship.<br /><br />Last Sunday, early morning, one of the youth workers was killed in a single car accident-he had fallen asleep at the wheel. The young man was 19 and the only child of his mother. Bishop called the family up to pray for them today. This mother is devastated and there was such tenderness for her. As you can imagine it was a 'moment' and all seemed to be holding their breath. It just felt reverent.<br /><br />After the prayer the <a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiN7wOnt8qpeHgx5cN3RHvfMX6iyT0HpMyzoe0K87UN9re3Iz03tuaI4AHsFoaQm2_Xi8srorE9AdoOPRslDyS8BNVL9bJC0VcVjX6FI5uvnvNBM_ob72ZQyS8MEn1yl0rpiQhBm-2MxyQ/s1600/1013091929%5B1%5D.jpg"><img style="MARGIN: 0px 10px 10px 0px; WIDTH: 319px; FLOAT: left; HEIGHT: 400px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5404740299821283426" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEiN7wOnt8qpeHgx5cN3RHvfMX6iyT0HpMyzoe0K87UN9re3Iz03tuaI4AHsFoaQm2_Xi8srorE9AdoOPRslDyS8BNVL9bJC0VcVjX6FI5uvnvNBM_ob72ZQyS8MEn1yl0rpiQhBm-2MxyQ/s400/1013091929%5B1%5D.jpg" /></a>family went back to their seats. Bishop then talked about another young man who was shot 6 years ago while he lived in the Bay area. It seems this young man was walking to the store and some stranger drove by and shot him in the head. He made it clear that this man wasn't into gangs or drugs, he was just running an errand. The doctors thought he wouldn't live 24 hours. His mother asked the COP <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">congregation</span>, where she attended, to pray. Well, this man survived with the bullet lodged in his brain. He was a bit paralyzed on one side, yet he made amazing progress.<br /><br />Two months ago, he went into surgery again because the bullet was giving him pain. The doctors were able to remove it and the man is becoming whole again! He brought the bullet today (it was in a safe container) and was walking, clapping and dancing! Praise God! He couldn't stop smiling and the whole <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-error">congregation was</span> caught up in the joy.<br /><br />All were dancing in their seats, clapping and shouting. The band kept playing and the music took on a life of it's own. It was a great time of praise.<br /><br />After the services are over, Victor <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">gets</span> a call to come check out the new offices of the Jewish Federation. They are 2 blocks away so we go for a visit. We see some friends that we haven't seen for a while, Michal, Noam, Neal, Fred, Rick and Michelle. That was fun too and, thankfully, they had lunch :D<br /><br />This, friends, is why I took a 2 hour nap! I was very tired and I still am...Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-81729656704092827762009-11-12T18:48:00.000-08:002009-11-12T21:23:03.948-08:00Happy 21st Anniversary to Us!Today is our 21st wedding anniversary. Victor and I have been married for what I would call, a long time. We have been through many 'dangers toils and snares' and lots of fun and adventure too. It is a good thing to be married for a long time.<br /><br /><br />I don't like to think where I'd be if I hadn't married Victor. He isn't like anyone else I know. He says he was raised to be a father and that is absolutely true. I say that he was also raised to be a husband--a good one. Both of his parents poured so much into their kids and they kept a happy home for them.<br /><br />I hope we have done the same for our children.<br /><br />Since I like lists, I had to make this one ;D<br /><br />Reasons I married Victor:<br /><br />1)He has a great sense of humour.<br />Sisters, please marry a man that makes you laugh. You will have days where that is SO important.<br /><br />2)He loves people and always wants to help them.<br />We have given time, money, counsel, a place to stay, tears and sleepless nights to lots of folks. It has always been worth it no matter what the outcome of our efforts.<br /><br />3)Victor loves the Lord and strives to live out this love at all times.<br />When Jesus said "If you love me, then keep my commandments." He takes that seriously.<br /><br />4)He is always reaching out beyond our world to make friends.<br />This is a skill that not many people have. Victor has a gift to connect people who need to get to know each other. If someone is sick, he probably knows a doctor who is a specialist for that ailment. If someone has written an important article, he knows who should read it so it gets a wider audience.<br /><br />5)He is an encourager.<br />I can't count how many people have crossed our path who have needed a word of encouragement (me especially). There are lots of people who are going through some of the things that we have and it is uncanny how he 'finds' them.<br /><br />Thanks honey for everything. Thanks honey for being you!<br /><br />Whoa, that sounded corny.<br />...oh well...<3Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-41926341263445140732009-11-08T22:08:00.000-08:002009-11-08T23:24:42.576-08:00Oh, How He Moves the Furniture!So, after I wrote about 'why can't I just love people?' God <i>pleasantly</i> reminded me of so many reasons why I have GREAT neighbors.<div><br /></div><div>Yes, there some good things that have happened in my 'hood.</div><div><br /></div><div>A few years ago, our neighborhood was thrown into panic when one of the little boys fell out of the 2nd story window onto concrete steps below. Another neighbor came running and told me that he thought the boys neck was broken and how he told the mother to keep him still. By the time I got there, the boy was in his mothers arms crying and they were waiting for the ambulance. We told the family that we were praying to Jesus to heal him.</div><div><br /></div><div>We went to the hospital later in the day and brought a couple of the older boys, Matloub and Garhib. We talked to the father and gave him a balloon for the boy. The boy was going to be fine. He broke his arm and it would be in a cast.</div><div><br /></div><div>On the way home, the two older boys asked Victor "Is Mohammad going to live?" "Is it because because you prayed?" Victor told him "Yes, it is because I prayed and asked Jesus to let Mohammad live."</div><div><br /></div><div>We don't preach to the kids, but we are always honest with our answers to their questions.</div><div><br /></div><div>I'm thankful that because of my neighbors presence, we don't have many strangers that walk down our street. I think that they see so many Muslim men, it kind of stops a lot of nonsense that could potentially happen.</div><div><br /></div><div>The young boys in our neighborhood are such hard workers. Their parents have given them such a great work ethic. (Immigrants are inspiring-living the American Dream) Whenever people are doing yard work or painting or, even, delivery guys that are bringing someone a new refrigerator--they want to help. A few weeks ago two of the very young ones, 3 years old or so, came to our door and knocked. Victor answered the door and the two boys giggled and asked if he had any work for them. Victor chuckled and told them "No, I don't have any work for you kids." They kept giggling and ran off back home.</div><div><br /></div><div>Katie is a young mom who has 3 kids and one on the way. She said that before she and her husband moved in, they didn't have interactions with so many different kinds of people. She mentioned that when her kids say something about the 'Pakistani kids' she has made it a rule that her kids mention them by name. It certainly made me stop in my tracks. I have to say that there are so many 'Pakistanis' that I don't know every ones name and I've been too lazy to learn them! Shame on me!</div><div><br /></div><div>I've been overwhelmed with the neat things God has done on our street. He has been reminding me of so much. Too much to put down tonight. I feel so petty and small-minded with what I wrote in my previous post. Yet I'm glad I put it down so I could see my own foolishness. Wow, I wasted precious 'thinking time' on such dumb stuff!</div><div><br /></div><div>Well, I can learn and I'm grateful that God hasn't given up on me. I want to get better and better. Those rough edges can get smooth if I surrender. Sometimes I am a crusty one...</div><div><br /></div><div>Thank You God for 'moving the furniture' of my heart.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-61850400662015173052009-11-04T18:56:00.000-08:002009-11-04T19:41:57.974-08:00Why Can't I Just Love People?Our family moved to this house in August of 1996. We had just gotten back from a tour of Israel. While there we'd see different sites and many times our guide would say something like "This place is sacred to the Jews, but they can't go there now because the Muslims have put a mosque on it." or "This site is holy to Christians, but the Muslims have put a graveyard on it so you can't go there." It left me wondering 'who are these Muslim people?'<br /><br />The first day we move in we see, you guessed it, Muslim people in our neighborhood! Right next door too. One of the men says "Aren't you Victor?" He had met Victor at Lou Anne's house. They are her neighbors and she has been phenomenal at reaching out to this family over the years.<br /><br />I've had sort of a rocky relationship with our neighbors. I tell you it has been tough sometimes. The first thing was they brought over some food and we thanked them. I reciprocated with an apple crisp. When I dropped it off the husband kept asking me what was in it. I told him everything and wondered what was going on. Later I learned that they can't have anything with vanilla extract because it has alcohol in it and they aren't allowed alcohol.<br /><br />It didn't take a genius to figure out that they probably threw it away. I was bummed.<br /><br />There have been a lot of misunderstandings over the years:<br />*The staring. Yes, there is lots of staring that I find so uncomfortable-even when I'm in my own backyard.<br />*Kids playing in the street. Even the tiniest are right out in the street without parents in sight.<br />*Putting their leaf pile in front of our house. I truly find that odd. (and rude)<br />*When I would take some of the women to appts. they wouldn't knock on my door. They would always call and go out to my car. Never at my doorstep. It definitely made me feel like they thought we were 'unclean'.<br />*Sometimes the boys won't talk to me. I find out later it is because I am a woman. Yet they sure will come over and play movies in our teen center.<br /><br />You get the picture. God has tested my heart many times and I fail most of the time with these neighbors. It seems like it is a little better though. The mood is shifting.<br /><br />I was thinking of Paul the Apostle and how he was designated to preach to the Gentiles. Man! He must have run into all kinds of cats with every kind of belief. Yet he loved those people. It wasn't any kind of big deal to him. He moved throughout the ancient world and served God wholeheartedly in the midst of all kinds of gods, ethnicities, living conditions, violence, imprisonment, brutality--I get convicted just thinking about it.<br /><br />Well, I will ask, like Paul, and say "Remember me when you pray."Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-49805240289145264732009-10-31T10:15:00.001-07:002009-10-31T11:03:19.399-07:00Sterling's Party Rules<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgon-adorTYCczKVUy9rtRxN3cmRC7C4unx96lHqFv9OGExfgsHrsfOpjBGF8KETFbh2cnURElJ6ishcRtOexsMbmj5gkfgoz6nOt1ZHLbzN7zsXOTfbuQIvmb5AYZmXmLaJLtL3N7Jli8/s1600-h/halloween+%2709.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 299px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5398814494614844066" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEgon-adorTYCczKVUy9rtRxN3cmRC7C4unx96lHqFv9OGExfgsHrsfOpjBGF8KETFbh2cnURElJ6ishcRtOexsMbmj5gkfgoz6nOt1ZHLbzN7zsXOTfbuQIvmb5AYZmXmLaJLtL3N7Jli8/s400/halloween+%2709.jpg" /></a><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYKLV5iIgwSvOjeQpqOhyphenhyphenwKpKzgCEnyFtAWeGK994wYZ2YL7g8iLLpcFYsoDSke-iaNK2yg2xD0tizbL4IR3Ddq8hoUIjMT6bx6O3H50gzas5kB4ICZfnwOHhaWbJ9A7nRec-HCd7osLU/s1600-h/halloween'09.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5398814348076837154" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjYKLV5iIgwSvOjeQpqOhyphenhyphenwKpKzgCEnyFtAWeGK994wYZ2YL7g8iLLpcFYsoDSke-iaNK2yg2xD0tizbL4IR3Ddq8hoUIjMT6bx6O3H50gzas5kB4ICZfnwOHhaWbJ9A7nRec-HCd7osLU/s400/halloween'09.jpg" /></a><br /><br /><div><a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNGXw9-fFa5RHPjSO2JawLN5n5cdwWpwzO3PmkE-myPh_BFWLZbteS8AkvxRJj4mXF44bhWXjsgERAR64pu4EOZnWLikUNjJxDihyphenhyphen7BHWXW9HG1Zj6vjBtQL8FapnPRkXoPUy-JC4c3O4/s1600-h/halloween.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 130px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 97px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5398814208576996018" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjNGXw9-fFa5RHPjSO2JawLN5n5cdwWpwzO3PmkE-myPh_BFWLZbteS8AkvxRJj4mXF44bhWXjsgERAR64pu4EOZnWLikUNjJxDihyphenhyphen7BHWXW9HG1Zj6vjBtQL8FapnPRkXoPUy-JC4c3O4/s400/halloween.jpg" /></a><br />So, we had a Halloween party last night. Whew! It was fun and my daughter and her good friends did a great job setting it up. We had nachos and chili dogs along with all kinds of candy and goodies.</div><div></div><div></div><div>I had a parent call and ask if there was going to be an adult overseeing the party. She was also wondering if there was going to be <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">alcohol served. No, there were no drinks or drugs! There were 3 or 4 couples that were really wanting to makeout though...</span>We all had to tell them that we want everyone to have a good time, but we weren't going to have any of that this evening. It is sad to realize that these young ones are having sex. Ugh. It is hard to think of your future when you are that young and that the decisions you make now may follow you for the rest of your life.</div><div></div><div></div><div>The music was loud and the dancing was great. There are some talented kids. I put together a food relay race that was a hit. What I do is wrap up various foods in tin foil and the teams send up one member to unwrap and eat the food and then on down the line. We did the boy against the girls and the boys won :D</div><div></div><div></div><div>I have to thank Victor who stayed in practically the whole evening. He is really good with young ones and a good watcher. Since we had everyone from 'soup to nuts', and that is right up his alley, I thank God for him! </div><div></div><div>Here are Sterlings Rules for the Halloween Party:(yes, she sent these out to all her invitees)</div><div>1) No one dies</div><div>2)No one gets pregnant</div><div>3)No drugs or alcohol</div><div></div><div></div><div>Yep, good times in the 'hood.<br /><br /></div></div><div></div>Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-91879778252857472472009-10-29T10:37:00.000-07:002009-10-29T10:57:07.792-07:00Feast of Tabernacles San Antonio, TX<a href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdhyLR8al2PKjpzAWZr48p7_Up90uiJSk33ec1KAAt_Oyy-rZoEP9xtWkSHsMoI4pFNgMGwp8V89e21vo7OxxETeFixtFbpNVXpowV38gv2_cvPFwt-yOxkujlmhZGQl86-PGz9LybtZA/s1600-h/San+Antonio+NTHI+Oct+%2709.jpg"><img style="TEXT-ALIGN: center; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; WIDTH: 400px; DISPLAY: block; HEIGHT: 300px; CURSOR: hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5398077811479040530" border="0" alt="" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEjdhyLR8al2PKjpzAWZr48p7_Up90uiJSk33ec1KAAt_Oyy-rZoEP9xtWkSHsMoI4pFNgMGwp8V89e21vo7OxxETeFixtFbpNVXpowV38gv2_cvPFwt-yOxkujlmhZGQl86-PGz9LybtZA/s400/San+Antonio+NTHI+Oct+%2709.jpg" /></a><br />This is part of my beautiful family. We are waiting for the Night to Honor Israel to start at Cornerstone Church in San Antonio.<br /><br />What a time we had. This is the first time we took Simon and Sterling. It was fun introducing them to everyone. We have such great friends that work with Christians United for Israel. Many of them also travel and to get us all together is a feat to be sure!<br /><br />On this NTHI Elie Weisel was the keynote speaker. He is a great voice speaking out against hatred and racism. I don't have his quote exactly right, but he said "Racism is about humiliation. I stand against humiliation no matter who is about." I am so glad I got to hear him. I've never heard a Nobel Peace Prize winner before.<br /><br />CUFI gave away 9 million dollars to various Israeli charities that night. We gave $500k to Elie's foundation. His foundation had invested all of their money with Madoff and it all was lost...<br /><br />During this celebration there are rides, booths, food, music and fireworks. It is a great time for the San Antonio community. Every year we HAVE to eat a big 'ol smoked turkey leg-mmmm. The meat is so tender and delish :D<br /><br />Well, I came home with a cold. It isn't that bad, but my thinking is disjointed and fuzzy.Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8213488886744086390.post-26600886411746728082009-10-21T21:46:00.000-07:002009-10-21T22:34:03.989-07:00A Pleasant Enough Day, Until...Well, here I am riding my very nice cruiser bike on a beautiful Autumn day. I like to ride through the Fab 40's neighborhood and, right now, it is especially nice with all of the leaves changing.<br /><br />As I head back home I take 39<span id="SPELLING_ERROR_0" class="blsp-spelling-error">th</span> St. to get back into my neighborhood. I pass the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_1" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">light rail</span> station and go through the tunnel. Up ahead a man is walking toward me on the sidewalk. He steps from the walkway into the street and into my pathway. He doesn't look at me. He is looking at the houses across the street. As I approach, I notice that he is reaching into his pocket and he takes out a knife. He unfolds it and it turns out to be a serrated hunting knife. I suddenly have the thought that this man is going to take a swipe at me as I ride by!<br /><br />It all happens in seconds. I speed up and go around the guy, leaving as much room as I can. He never takes a swipe, but as I get a few yards a way, I turn around and he is looking right at me.<br /><br />When I get home I call the police. I give them a description and my number. I decide that since I need to walk my dog later and this is the route I take, I should try to find this guy and tell the police where he is. I am going to jump into my car and take a look myself.<br /><br />As I am heading out, I get a call from the police. They say they have picked up a suspect and want me to ID him. I go to where they have detained the guy-yep, it is him. Then they show me the knife-yep, it is the weapon. I get a feeling that the man is a parolee and no stranger to the police.<br /><br />Well, I am glad that no harm came to me or anyone else. I had to tell Victor who is out of town right now and he was NOT happy. He called a bunch of people so that they would check on me and had a nice visit with <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_2" class="blsp-spelling-error">Aladrian</span>. Everything is good. I don't feel fearful or anything like that. I actually walked Bradley and all was well.<br /><br />I know that God is watching over me and feel great confidence in that knowledge. I do feel that these things happen because the spirits know that we stand with Israel and her people. It is a battle in the <span id="SPELLING_ERROR_3" class="blsp-spelling-corrected">heavens</span>. Nothing can touch one of His own without His explicit permission.<br />I have a hope and a future.<br /><br /><span id="SPELLING_ERROR_4" class="blsp-spelling-error">Btw</span>, the man was a white male 5'10", balding with sparse dark, close-cropped hair. Slim, muscular build. He had a black, flame tattoo on his shoulder.Maritahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17303120346367859913noreply@blogger.com3